Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Easter Back Home

After our time in SC, we just moved the trip north to the other Carolina. Luke and I had nice visits with some of my Mamaw’s siblings on the way. When we finally arrived in Murphy, Luke settled in for lots of fun and spoiling with the grand and great grandparents, and especially his aunts. In addition to my sister Michele, Ben’s sister Lauren joined us for the holiday weekend. Galen and Ben joined us all on Friday after work and everyone shared had a nice long weekend with plenty to celebrate: dinner with friends, coloring Easter eggs, taking Easter photos out by the big oak tree, great family dinners at home and at Grandma’s where we hid eggs for the kids. We had beautiful weather and such a nice time Luke didn’t want to leave. We finally made it back to Knoxville and found spring bloomed out while we were gone. Now it’s time to mow, plant, and watch everything green up for the season.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Charleston and the Cooper River Bridge Run 2010

We recently spent a great long weekend in one of our favorite cities: Charleston, SC! We had a nice drive down and wonderful weather for all our time in town. We all gathered for the Cooper River Bridge Run. Ben had done it as a teenager, Tom ran it last year, and so we all went for this year’s run. Luke did the kids’ run on Friday, earning a medal for participation---he was so proud and wore it out everywhere we went most of the weekend. The 10K race and walk began at 8Am Saturday morning, but we had to be bused to the start in Mt. Pleasant before they closed the bridge down to traffic---line up at 6:30. It was chilly morning, but everyone warmed up once they were moving. Ben was sick with a cold all week leading up the race, but still managed to finish with a great time. I was the slowpoke of the group, but was happy to finish my first 10K in fairly good time for a walker.

It was Luke’s first time in Charleston and we had to take the drive out to some of Ben’s favorite old haunts on Sullivan’s Island---Poe’s Tavern is always a great stop. We also ate at some great restaurants back in town including Blossom and my all-time favorite Rue de Jean. We hit the rock shop, watched the NCAA tournament, and just relaxed. It was a real treat with lots of help with Luke and time to rest. Can’t wait to go back again!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

A Pennsylvania Thanksgiving


This year we spent our Thanksgiving holiday in Pennsylvania with many of Ben's relatives who either still live in the area or came back home for the occassion. We stayed with his grandparents (Luke's Pop Pop and Gigi) and were lucky to have lots of family come by to visit with us there. Ben's sister Lauren and her boyfriend Matt even made it over since they were in PA for Thanksgiving with his family. We were also fortunate to see Ben's aunt Holly and uncle David up from DC, cousin Peter who lives in PA now, and their daughter Brin who flew in from LA. There were 17 for Thanksgiving dinner on Thursday, with aunts, uncles and cousins a-plenty. Luke had a great time with everyone and appreciated our hosts Tina and Alan and their children opening their home to a few more guests this year.

My parents also made it up over the holiday weekend, not for turkey and dressing, but to help pick up a tractor that has been in Ben's family since the 1940's. After an extensive restoration, she's all shined up and ready to go down south to stay in the family another 50 years and then some. It made the trip very well and is now resting safely in a garage for the winter.  It is a special memento of the family farm and all who have lived and worked there. 



All told, Luke saw 23 different relatives during our four day visit! It was certainly a whirlwind trip up on Wednesday and back Saturday night, but it was great to see everyone we could and to be there to help decorate for Christmas with Pop Pop and Doris. Our next treat was to see the lighting of the tree in nearby Skippack with Ben's aunt Nancy and uncle Pete. My parents stayed overnight with them when they got into town, so we had a great night out seeing Santa, listening to carolers and eating some delicious Italian food---we started the holiday feasting early with year! Luke had some big laughs with Uncle Pete as you will see in the photos---he knows how to get him going!

We hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving whereever and however you may have celebrated. I know times are very challenging for so many families right now, but that seems to be all the more reason to simply acknowledge the gifts we have been given, to celebrate our families and friends with grateful hearts as we enter the holiday season. This Christmas is the perfect time to find comfort and joy in what we already have and not what may or may not be under the Christmas tree. 



Friday, November 13, 2009

Wedding in the Mountains



Last weekend we were happy to be in Western NC for a beautiful fall wedding for my cousin Robert and his lovely new bride, Crystal. The wedding was held at Lake Junaluska Assembly Chapel. I've driven by the little lake community for years but never had occasion to stop and visit. The chapel sits right on the lake, facing high mountains all around the valley. The setting was serene and quaint, reminiscent of a quiet New England village. Everyone looked their best for the big day and had a great time at all the events from rehearsal and dinner on Friday through the ceremony and reception Saturday night.  A few of the photos we took are shown here and in the slideshow to the left, but to you can see the gorgeous professional photographs by Jon Bowman by visiting www.pictage.com/619436 or http://www.jondbowman.net/ .


Most of our family all stayed together for the wedding weekend at Smoky Shadows Lodge in Maggie Valley, courtesy of Uncle Harmon and Aunt Beverly, the parents of the groom. We had the whole place to ourselves after the rehearsal dinner there Friday night. It was nice to have the time to visit and relax together, all in one place. We hadn't really gotten to spend much time with Harmon, Beverly and Rob since coming back to the States, so it was treat all around.

The day of the wedding Ben, Luke, Rob, and I went out for lunch and a little trip to Cataloochee Ranch to see the horses. At nearly 5,000 feet, Cataloochee Mountain opens up to meadows on the very top. There is a horse ranch on one side and the ski lodge and lift on the other. We only visited the horse ranch, walking around and letting Luke briefly ride a horse around the paddock. We thought they might have pony rides, but a few minutes on a big horse is plenty when you’re two. He was excited to tell everyone back at the lodge he rode a big horse!


During rehearsal on Friday night, Luke broke free from me to join Ben, a groomsman, up front. We joked he’d probably try it the next day, hoping we were wrong….but we weren’t. All was going so well at first; Luke was sitting very quietly with his cousin Delaney who came over with Grandma Allen, Aunt Lydia, and her parents Lindsey and Mac from Murphy. After the bride arrived, Luke thought it was a good time to rejoin Ben. I had to take him out into the adjoining vestibule for the remainder of the wedding, but I could hear it and was able to be there all the same. You never know what will happen when a two-year old is in the mix!

Luke also had a big time at the reception...on the dance floor all night, literally. We sat at a table directly beside it, and he started out there during dinner and kept going until it was time to send the newlyweds off through an arcade of sparklers. It was a wonderful wedding weekend and a great time to visit with family. We were grateful to be a part of it and wish Rob and Crystal all the best in the coming years. Auspiciously, the couple was blessed with perfect weather for their wedding. It was fairly warm and completely clear in the day, starry and crisp at night. It reminded me of a poem about October, but I think one could say all the same of early November in the North Carolina mountains.



October’s Bright Blue Weather
by Helen Hunt Jackson

O suns and skies and clouds of June,
And flowers of June together,
Ye cannot rival for one hour
October's bright blue weather;

When loud the bumblebee makes haste,
Belated, thriftless vagrant,
And goldenrod is dying fast,
And lanes with grapes are fragrant;

When gentians roll their fingers tight
To save them for the morning,
And chestnuts fall from satin burrs
Without a sound of warning;

When on the ground red apples lie
In piles like jewels shining,
And redder still on old stone walls
Are leaves of woodbine twining;

When all the lovely wayside things
Their white-winged seeds are sowing,
And in the fields still green and fair,
Late aftermaths are growing;

When springs run low, and on the brooks,
In idle golden freighting,
Bright leaves sink noiseless in the hush
Of woods, for winter waiting;

When comrades seek sweet country haunts,
By twos and twos together,
And count like misers, hour by hour,
October's bright blue weather.

O sun and skies and flowers of June,
Count all your boasts together,
Love loveth best of all the year
October's bright blue weather.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Spokane Dispatch

After much recollection and writing, I have finally finished the travelogue from our trip to Spokane in September. I wrote this more for Luke, so we can remember all we did with him, but if you are so inclined, set aside some time and give it a read. If you are short on time, just check out the slideshow on the sidebar for now. Trip to Spokane: Sept 5-14 Saturday 9/5 We’re back from our 9 day trip to Spokane, Washington. Our maiden voyage was a great one, taking in most of the sites of Spokane and many of the surrounding locals of Eastern Washington. We started off our Saturday afternoon by hitting a farmer’s market on the way back from the airport and picking up purple potatoes and freshly picked huckleberries. Then we arrived at their new home, a beautiful, contemporary condo overlooking the falls of the Spokane River. Just across the river we could see aptly named Riverside Park. For the Labor Day weekend, a festival called Pig Out in the Park was going on in the park, bringing extra rides, musicians, and people to the otherwise quiet park. We rode the ferris wheel, giant Radio Flyer wagon slide, and walked back across the falls to a nice dinner at home. Sunday 9/6 Upon arriving we were immediately struck by how different it looked topographically and even geologically. Eastern Washington is semi-arid, almost desert-like with brown steppe, sage brush, and mostly evergreen trees where any are growing at all. But with the warm temperatures and mostly sunny weather, you can grow nearly anything and everything so long as you water it. The parks are lush and replete with plants we know and love back East, but in sizes and bloom states rarely seen back home. A perfect example of this is Manito Park on the South Hill of Spokane. The park was designed by the Olmstead Brothers of Central Park and Biltmore Estate fame, and the attention to detail and ‘garden rooms’ is evident. I was just so impressed that in early September every single garden could still be at peak bloom and color. It was a treat to walk through on our first full day in town. Before strolling through the park, we had a wonderful lunch at Luna, a French-inspired restaurant that grew most of their own produce. Everything was fresh and delicious…a great place to try regional specialties like the Idaho ruby trout (looks and tastes similar to mild salmon) and huckleberries. We tried to go Arbor Crest, a hilltop vineyard, for an outdoor concert but a strong storm blew through and cancelled the show. Ben and I toured the grounds briefly, very lovely up on the mountains overlooking town and looking on to the timbered mountains of Idaho just over the border. Instead of the show, Ben and I went out on a dinner date at a great restaurant called Millfords, stopping to listen to the last concert of the weekend at the park festival: the totally irreverent but funny Austin Lounge Lizards. Monday 9/7 I should mention that just before we arrived in Spokane, Tom had just come home from a business trip to Japan. He was dealing with a big time change and jet lag of his own, so he was up in the night when Luke was waking early, still on East Coast time. So sleepless in Spokane, Tom took Luke on an EARLY morning adventure in the pre-dawn damp and dark city. They headed out with Nelle in search of coffee, finding most places tightly closed up, until they finally found the Starbucks kiosk in the Davenport Hotel open for business in a most regal of settings. The lobby of the Davenport is worth a visit just to see how fine hotels used to be; Luke loved the fountain in the center teeming with koi. He reported in excited bursts on all this and their walks when they came back home later that morning. Oh, the adventures grandfathers can take you on! The remainder of our Labor Day was spent boating with family friends, Gordy and Judy Jones and her niece in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho. The weather was cool and a little rainy, but it was a treat to see the mountains and pretty lake homes from water. Luke was not sightseeing, however, as he was too busy ‘driving’ the boat with Ben for the latter half of the trip. He finally tuckered out after a stop for drinks and snacks, rocked to sleep by the boat over windy water as we raced a storm back to the docks. Upon leaving the boat, we Tom, Susan, Ben, Luke, and I drove further into the forests of Idaho to see the lay of the land….so different than the arid, sparsely treed area immediately around Spokane. Luke was still asleep from the boat ride back until several miles down the road on further into Idaho. Through his sleepy haze, he surprised us all by looking around confused and asking, “Where are the other three?” We couldn’t believe put that together and counted who was ‘missing,’ but it was a perfectly logical think to ask. Just goes to show you how attentive even two year olds are to details. Tuesday 9/8 Tueday was a red letter day for Luke….and his sentimental mama. This was the day of Luke’s First Haircut. Tom had an appointment to get his cut, Ben needed a trim, too, and so it turned out to a be a boys’ day for haircuts at Leland’s on Wall, a great barber shop along Tom’s walk to work. I was apprehensive, but I knew it was coming and what better time than for them all to get haircuts together. Luke watched as Tom and Ben had their turns and then sat on Ben’s lap for his trim. Just cleaned the curls up a bit, but it still made him look older to me. The end result was very cute , and he was so proud of his haircut. After all this, Tom went into work for a bit and we later toured the Clearwater Paper offices, meeting some of Tom’s new coworkers and of course seeing Mr. Jones again. Luke went right to Gordy, which was very sweet to see. He certainly remembered him from boating the day before. We packed a lot into this day, leaving the office to drive down through the Palouse to Steptoe Butte. The topography is wildly different in this wheat and grain growing section of the state: rolling, mound-like hills as far as you can see in every direction. The only major outcropping is Steptoe Butte, a quartzite mountain rising to over 3600 ft and about 1,000 ft over the surrounding hills. The view was the top was stunning, with the fields below rolling out like earth-tone quilts. We noticed lots of apple trees growing along the road up, so after having our picnic lunch on top and enjoying the view, we headed down stopping along the way for apple picking and then apple-pelting as the boys started throwing them at each other. Luke even took a few cheap shots at Ben from close range. I picked enough for a pie and was happy for the experience, thinking all the while that maybe Jonny Appleseed had brought these apples all this way west. From Steptoe, we took in one more stop, driving down to the college town of Pullman. It was a quaint town and we enjoyed walking around the downtown shops before stopping for drinks and appetizers in a restaurant in what was their old Post Office. I like seeing the old structures get a new life and this reincarnation was very charming. It was a nice final stop before making the drive back to Spokane for the evening. Wednesday 9/9 After our long day on Tuesday, we spent Wednesday at home and walking around Spokane. We visited the Flour Mill shops next door to Tom and Susan’s building. There I secretly bought some silver sheet metal to start on my first metal working project in jewelry: a simple silver ring for Ben for our upcoming fifth anniversary. Next it was back to the park for more rides and slides, visits to wine and cheese shops and some nice cheese selections to take home: Comte’, a truffled pecorino (in homage to our Italian compatriots), and Luke’s mild favorite, Mimolette. It was only a quick walk back across the footbridges and we spent the evening enjoying the roar of the falls from the balcony. Thursday 9/10 Tom had to go away for the day on business, so we relaxed at home most of the morning with Ben finally getting time to while away the morning reading the paper and drinking coffee. We rallied in the afternoon and headed out to a large cat rescue center called Cat Tales. It was amazing to see the tigers, lions, and yes, even some bears (Oh my!), as well as cervals, pumas, and bobcats. All the animals were rescued either from an injury in the wild, owners who could no longer care for them, or from entertainment acts. We saw one of the remaining Zambian lions, with his long dark mane and keen eyes; you may have seen him, too, since he was a retired MGM lion that roars through the movie credits. The staff was friendly and knowledgeable and the animals all looked healthy and well cared for. With Susan’s love of animals, I’m sure she will become a regular visitor. When Tom came back home, we made a stop by the Davenport Hotel and then went out to dinner at the Steam Plant, literally a converted steam-powered generation station. They are now a nice restaurant and functional brewery, making several different kinds of beer, including huckleberry ale---talk about seasonal and local! Friday 9/11 Friday we took a trip to Walla Walla and the surrounding wine country. As it turned out, the locals grow apples and some grapes, but it seemed like most of the wineries in the area use grapes grown in the nearby Columbia Valley. The town was very nice to visit and walk around, with a mix of restaurants, tasting rooms, interesting boutiques, and Luke’s favorite, a real old-fashioned candy store. This shop reminded me of the popcorn and hot nut counter that was in the Sky City store in Murphy when I was young. All children have or make good memories from a special candy or treat store, even children who are now adults. Most of the actual wineries must have been a bit of a drive out of the town, but you could get a feel for what the area had to offer just by visiting the downtown and tasting their wares. Ben and I were impressed with a very young winemaker (21!) who is turning out surprisingly well-blended bottles at Sweet Valley Wines. The Otis Kenyon room is another to visit; don’t skip their Malbec if you make it that way! Saturday 9/12 The highlight of Saturday was the Spokane County Fair. Ben read about it in the paper, so we decided to check it out. It was a great traditional county fair with rides and a midway, farm equipment, produce, livestock, a rodeo, and even train rides on a decommissioned Union Pacific rail. Luke enjoyed playing on a hand-powered rail push cart the repairmen used to scoot around on the line many years ago. All the animals in the livestock barns were a big hit with Luke, too, and of course all the rides: He rode motorcycles, baja carts, and a carousel before calling it a night. Sunday 9/13-14 We all rose early to make it to the airport for our 6:15AM flight back home, but our pilot had other plans. He was supposedly sick and didn’t get to call in and let anyone know until it was nearly time to board. There were no other one-stop routes home to Knoxville all day, so at the last minute we decided to be bumped to the same flight on Monday morning and have one more day in Washington. This plan was much better than bouncing around the western hubs with a 2-year old in tow, plus everyone got one more day of vacation and visiting. We took advantage of the time to finally make our neglected apple pie and celebrate Tom and Susan’s anniversary (which was the next day) over dinner. Early to bed again and this time with even less bags in tow, we finally made it onto our flight back to Knoxville and work and all our regular routine. Our time in Spokane was a welcome break and a wonderful introduction to the Northwest. Luke enjoyed his time with his Bacca and Nonna and constantly talks about wanting to go back. We have lots more to explore and I’m sure Tom and Susan are game for any and all adventures to come.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

SPOKANE!

We had a great trip to Spokane, Washington over Labor Day, visiting with Luke's Nonna and Bacca. We took in the sites and attractions of the Inland Northwest and have much to share from our ten days there. I'm working to chronicle it all, day by day, and will update this post with the full report in a few days. We really packed a lot into our days, so it's taking me a while to remember and write about it all. Check back soon!

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Putt Putt

On a recent visit back to Murphy, we took Luke for an 18 hole round of putt putt golf. Don't think Tiger Woods has anything to be concerned about, but we all had a good time and Luke led the family into every hole. He loves really taking a whack at the ball! And naturally, the only appropriate thing to finish up with at the 19th hole is ice cream. I think it's safe to say a good time was had by all.

Friday, July 31, 2009

The New Biker Boys

Well it used to only be motorcycles and tricycles, but now, Luke and Ben have bonded over two shared wheels. They have started biking together, and Luke LOVES it. He asks for a bike ride nearly every day when Ben comes home from work. He has his own seat and helmet and sits back like he owns the road. They ride to the park to play, to the hobby store for trains and planes, and on occassion, to Dunkin' Donuts for a sweet treat on Saturday mornings. I'm starting to think if it has wheels, Luke is going to want to ride in and eventually drive it.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Family Fun, Florida Style

We just returned from a nice trip to Florida, combining a family vacation to visit Ben’s grandmother and attending a friend’s wedding in St. Augustine. My parents and sister met us in FL, and we had a great time swimming and playing with Luke at the beach. My parents and sister, Michele, all had a much needed break from work life back in NC, relaxing and reminiscing about our visits to Flagler Beach as when Michele and I were children. Now we take Luke and watch his test the salt waves just like we did when were little.
Coincidentally, Ben also beached at Flagler when we was little, visiting his aunt Sue and her family in the summer. We missed Sue this trip since she was traveling out west, but she generously opened her home to us. Grandma Colgrove is just across the street, so it was great getting up to go over for breakfast and then coming back to watch Luke swim at Sue’s pool. Ben’s grandmother is wonderful with Luke and always makes you so glad you we able to visit. She’s a model of healthy and graceful aging. Her bright spirit and joy make her a delight.
The garden wedding in St. Augustine was amazing. Such a beautiful location, good weather, and the most fun reception I’ve ever attended. My friend Amy was a gorgeous and gracious bride, and Ben and I were proud to be there to witness her vows and finally meet her husband Carl. We wish them all the best and know they have a wonderful life ahead.
Luke is a little water rat, so most of the time he was in either the pool or at the beach. He dried out long enough for everyone to go for a final family dinner on our last night. I guess he thinks he’s a big guy now from the way he ‘reads’ the paper. Wonder where he’s seen that pose before?

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Auntie Comes to Town

Ben's sister, Lauren, came for her first visit to our home in Knoxville at the end of June. Despite the sweltering heat that weekend, we had several nice outings in the area and more importantly, just enjoyed relaxing and catching up at home. Lauren came bearing very important and timely gifts for Luke: his first set of big boy underwear! She's working for Hanes this summer and really scored some great undies with Cars, Shrek, and of course Thomas the Tank Engine. We are slowly transitioning away from diapers and working on our potty training everyday, so these were a perfect new incentive.
On Saturday, we sweated alongside everyone else who gathered to watch and paddle at an annual dragon boat race for charity. Luke liked picking his favorite boats by color and seeing how they did in each heat race. The weather was a little more bearable on Sunday, so we finally made it to the Knoxville Zoo. We saw the requisite lions, tigers, and bears-oh, my!-but also got to watch an elephant get a head-to-toe scrub down with his trainers. Our zoo also has red pandas, which I haven't seen very often. We hoped to see the newly-born chimp, Baby George, but they were not out when we came through. It's a good reason to take Luke back in the fall. Be sure to check out our zoo slideshow on the sidebar. As you'll see, Luke has lots of fun when auntie comes to town.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The Mamas and The Papas

This spring we were fortunate to celebrate both Mother's and Father's Day, as well as my mother's birthday, with my family at our home here in TN. We missed seeing Ben's mom and dad on these holidays, but we were grateful to be back in the States this year to share these days with family. My Mamaw was also able to come on Mother's Day, so we had three generations of mothers to mark the occassion. Luke was getting lots of attention and love, especially enjoying his time playing with Aunt Chele.
After May flowers and mothers, June celebrates fathers and all they mean to their children. It was a special day for Ben and Luke, and it was nice they could share it with my Daddy. Ben and my father spent the morning at the flying field, flying Ben's new SPAD XIII RC plane. Luke had been vigilantly keeping his secret of where Ben's Father's Day gifts were stowed. He made it four whole days, only to cave on Saturday: he was so excited to show them to Ben, hidden in a closet. When I told him, 'NO-NO, not 'til tomorrow', he started crying and hanging his head. We had to laugh just because it was like he suddenly remembered it was a secret, and he let the cat out of the bag. Luke himself was the targeted gift recipient anyway. In truly fatherly form, Ben had asked for a bike seat and helmet for Luke so he could ride with him. Thinking of your child even when the day is supposed to be about you---now that's exactly why we have Father's Day.